My name is Toby Singer. I’m an NYC-based therapist who works with individuals and couples to support their emotional growth and healing. I work for The Moses Collaborative.

My style is warm, grounded, relational, and engaged. I work flexibly and collaboratively, drawing from AEDP, psychodynamic therapy, somatic awareness, CBT/DBT skills, and mindfulness-based approaches.

In my work, I help clients unravel old patterns, address attachment wounds, and foster growth from a holistic perspective. I offer a confidential and affirming environment where clients can be fully themselves—whether that means laughing, sitting with discomfort, or finding moments of clarity and healing.

The people who find their way to my practice tend to be folks whose inner lives are rich and whose responsibilities run deep:

• Creative professionals who are navigating burnout, perfectionism, visibility, rejection, performance pressure, or creative block.

• High-achieving, emotionally intelligent adults whose creative, sensitive brains don’t always match the expectations of their careers or families.

• Jewish professionals and community members carrying the weight of identity, responsibility, and communal expectations.

• People moving through fertility journeys (IVF, pregnancy loss, donor decisions, identity shifts, the grief and hope of family-building) looking for a therapist who can hold the emotional and existential sides of it.

• Founders, leaders, and entrepreneurs trying to juggle ambition, intensity, vision, pressure, and the loneliness that often comes with building something from nothing.

Therapy with me is a place where you can bring the full range of who you are: ambitious and tired, sensitive and overwhelmed, hopeful and skeptical, analytical and emotional. We slow down and notice what’s happening beneath the surface. And we work toward a version of your life that feels more honest, more grounded, and more connected to who you are.

Outside my clinical work, I’m a composer, musician, record producer, avid cook, committed sports fan, and dog person. Creative life continues to shape the way I understand people — how we hold pressure, how we strive, how we break, how we love, and how we heal.

I am supervised by Yuval Moses, LCSW.

EDUCATION

• Masters of Social Work - New York University

• M.F.A. in Performing Arts Management - Brooklyn College

• B.A. in Music Theory - University of Michigan

LICENSE

• New York - LMSW #127519 | Psychology Today